The other type

I have been through alot of things this past year such as looking for a new place,searching for a good paying job the ups and downs of my relationships with my two children which is always a work in progress. Dealing with my mother in the hospital and of course dealings with my relationships with the opposite sex. Which brings me to this question;Does any women not like being told that they are beautiful,smart and sexy and thought of very often with the desire of love,passion and effection from a man? I have posed this question to many women as of lately and to me surprise they gave these answers: “Hell no, I wish I would hear them more often”. Also,”Not nearly enough,I’d like to find a man that does”.”Do I have to hang a sign to get him to notice me?”,”I’d like him to simply hold me and say the words I love you”and it would rock my world”.”My husband slips notes to me and says sweet things like I think your cute and it always bring a smile to my face”. Then I posed this question.Would it matter at any time of the day or night? To know surprise here they all gave me this simple answer:”No,not at all”. So i came to the conclusion that all humans, be it they are male or female need this showing of effection. It’s healthy right? Example; I’m a man and I’m thinking of my women and it’s after midnight,maybe round 1am and I call or even text these days and say something like,”I’m calling to say that I’m thinking of you”. Now is that really a bad thing? She may be in bed because she has early work in the morning. Would you still like that call? Again I asked several women and they gave me these answers: “No, that is so sweet and I would love that”.”That is so romantic”.”I’d sleep resting assured that he is my man”. So you see ladies and gentlemen, thats the kind of thing we as lovers and friends and husbands and wives need more often. Too be noticed,too be loved. Knowing that somewhere someone out there is thinking of you at every moment of every day. Alot of us has lost the love of our life by not saying these things often enough. You might say that we took our eye off the ball as lovers of passion and effection. We grew stale. Will we learn from our mistakes and say the words that lift our hearts? You know the words,”Honey you look great today,your so beautiful dear”. And that all so important one,”I love you”.”I’m thinking of you”. Take this as a warning people.You may lose this person you care for if you don’t except them at any giving time. And there aren’t many good ones out there. I know I would love to have that special someone call me like that. I must say that I did try this once and it wasn’t recieve very well. So much for what I know of effection in words. I guess there are a few exceptions. So, is it better to say or to do nothing at all? How ever I’m going with the majority. Call them,love them and let them know how you feel. Because there is no promise of tomorrows. You may not get another chance to tell that special someone that your thinking of them right at this very moment with everlasting love and effection. “Hey, call me”.

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